Under the cloak of Blog: Anonym, nom de guerre, alloynm, pseudonym

It so happened that my close friend had pinged me the link to his blog (when we were not so close) which i read recently ( Finally !!!). Had praised him how I liked the blog long time back itself :P . And I realize somehow there was a lack of consistency. He was a totally different person as if i didnt know him at all. Had I read it before only the whole knowing him would have been different.

The inconsistency could be because he was a different person then. Else it was intentional to portray a character which is not him. Or the case I want to discuss in his case: a true person but doesnt want to portray this attitude in reality.

It may seem that we are with this person day in and day out still this weird unsettled feeling of not knowing him well enough. But then entire lifetime is also not enough to know someone. But then the question of judging the person because of the blog arises. Or a peek into their personal life. Well one can say that he knew the consequences to write about it. Literally declare about him in public but may not reveal the same to the person sitting next to him the whole day.

Past few days I have been thinking that his silence was talking to me more than him. Trying to say something but not actually doing so. Hence (like me ofcourse) saying without saying it exactly. or saying it too abstractly. Well some of the questions have been solved. Also if it gives an advantage to understand a person better would I invade his privacy in social n/w sites? Is that ethical? Hopefully

P.S. I do want to make a statement - Sophistication and being good is almost mutually exclusive. But its complement need not be :P

The contradiction we find in such blogs is that trying not to reproduce exact character - personal and intended characters are mixed to form a falooda. Giving layers to the personality :P (ref to sherk) Finally it would take psychologist to decipher the true nature ( at any point of time.. for dynamic personalities like the one we are ref to here) Last but not least thanks to him i got to know the metamorphosis of thought process in the so called steel strong sex :P

Disclaimer: I might be judged for such a blog. But then if i can think i need not shy away from penning it down.

Nostalgia

"In the year 1781, while I lay in barracks at Tin mouth in the north of England, a recruit who had lately joined the regiment,...was returned in sick list, with a message from his captain, requesting I would take him into the hospital. He had only been a few months a soldier; was young, handsome, and well-made for the service; but a melancholy hung over his countenance, and wanness preyed on his cheeks. He complained of a universal weakness, but no fixed pain; a noise in his ears, and giddiness of his head....As there were little obvious symptoms of fever, I did not well know what to make of the case...Some weeks passed with little alteration...excepting that he was evidently become more meager. He scarcely took any nourishment...became indolent...He was put on a course of strengthening medicines; wine was allowed him. All proved ineffectual. He had now been in the hospital three months, and was quite emaciated, and like one in the last stage of consumption... On making my morning visit, and inquiring, as usual, of his rest at the nurse, she happened to mention the strong notions he had got in his head, she said, of home, and of his friends. What he was able to speak was constantly on this topic. This I had never heard of before...He had talked in the same style, it seems, less or more, ever since he came into the hospital. I went immediately up to him, and introduced the subject; and from the alacrity with which he resumed it.. I found it a theme which much affected him. He asked me, with earnestness, if I would let him go home. I pointed out to him how unfit he was, from his weakness to undertake such a journey [he was a Welchman] till once he was better; but promised him, assuredly, without farther hesitation, that as soon as he was able he should have six weeks to go home. He revived at the very thought of it... His appetite soon mended; and I saw in less than a week, evident signs of recovery." 

Nostalgia is often triggered by something reminding the individual of an event or item from their past. The resulting emotion can vary from happiness to sorrow. The term of "feeling nostalgic" is more commonly used to describe pleasurable emotions associated with and/or a longing to go back to a particular period of time.English homesickness is a loan translation of nostalgia.

In a slight variation from the conventional usage of the word nostalgia, some intend to convey the meaning of "a feeling of appreciation for the past or something related to the past, often in an idealized form." This differs from the standard usage in that it does not necessarily include a longing or yearning to return to the past, but instead simply an appreciation for it.

I really wish I only come in the second category. I really am writing about nostalgia bcoz we are species which likes to be sentimental (does one count for species :P ) It goes hand in hand with human emotions. Nostalgia this time was triggered by a friend who i met after long long time. One who was on and off best friend of mine ( :P ) Pics and Videos are like wine they are more relishing when seen after long time. We saw videos of our group. There was misunderstandings and fallouts but still when we look back its all silly utterly stupid!!!

( If we had not fought we wouldnt have found the whole issue funny. I guess thats why we always were becoming one step less stupider in our lives)

It is upto us how we look at the past, may be the future is better but do we only relish the past? Or the past paves a way for our base to love and live our future. It all relative.